Recently I saw a thought-provoking question on a cross-border forum: As women in the cross-border e-commerce field, what kind of jobs can we do after the age of 30 or 40?

Because women have always been at a disadvantage in the workplace, which is related to physiological characteristics and social prejudice against female leadership; just like in the field of cross-border e-commerce training services, there are far more male lecturers than female ones, and female operations have not received enough attention in the industry!

The excellence of female operators

To be honest: as female operators, we work hard and pursue performance just to prove that we are qualified and excellent operators; I always think that those of us who do cross-border e-commerce operations are pretty good!

Because we have mastered many survival skills that are difficult for ordinary people in the workplace to master , such as: Python web crawler, Excel advanced application, X-Mind, foreign language communication, data analysis, etc. If you work very hard, you may also have skills such as copywriting planning, media operation, and traffic promotion.

But no matter how many advanced professional skills one has mastered, in the workplace, both men and women will inevitably face the awkward age of 30.

The survey shows that most women will choose to get married and become housewives at the right age, sacrificing themselves to complete the mission of taking care of their husbands and children! This phenomenon is terrible and fatal for women of the era (Shenzhen girls) who are unwilling to accept reality and are unwilling to succumb to marriage!

I believe there are many female friends like me who are unwilling to accept reality and succumb to marriage. So we choose to work hard and urge ourselves to be excellent enough in real time!

In this way, if one day you return to the mountains and your aunts and uncles urge you to get married or even want to break up you and him, you will have the capital and qualifications to tell them: I can support myself, I have enough food to eat, my dream is firmly established, do I need you to interfere?

I want to tell every female friend who is engaged in cross-border e-commerce that maintaining a sense of crisis is a quality we should have, whether in the workplace or in marriage!

I am not advocating feminism here, I just hope you can all understand one thing: marriage is not the end. As long as you are alive and breathing, you should be a proud black swan with your own abilities.

No matter whether you are "poor" or "rich" in the future, being a girl who is independent in both material and spirit is what you should be like! If you are unhappy, why not spend money to buy happiness?

Career development advice for female operators

① Develop a sideline business if time and energy permit:

I once quit my job because of my side job. Why do you recommend you to have a side job? If one day you are laid off and can't find a suitable job, you will realize the importance of a side job!

② Demonstrate outstanding comprehensive abilities and strive for promotion to management level:

If you have strong comprehensive abilities and are recognized by your boss and colleagues, then it is a good choice to work hard to become your boss's right-hand man before the age of 30; as long as the company does not go bankrupt, you can work here with peace of mind. However, people at the top are often busier than grassroots staff, and they bear greater risks and pressure. So you have to think clearly about what kind of work you do with what kind of money!

③ Become a cross-border e-commerce training instructor:

Women with outstanding performance and unique management methods can consider becoming cross-border e-commerce training instructors; the cross-border e-commerce industry lacks talent and the market demand is huge.

However, the requirements for recruiting lecturers on large platforms are also very high. Therefore, friends who want to share this big cake should learn, reflect and summarize more in their daily work.

Best wishes to the female operators

Being thirty is not scary, but we must have the ability to resist various risks before we are thirty. I always feel that the speed at which I make money cannot keep up with the speed at which my parents are getting old. Even if I work hard to save money and do a side job, I can't get rid of the blame in my heart.

Some people think that as long as their parents are alive, their family is harmonious, and their work is going well, they will be satisfied. But the unknown tomorrow always makes you anxious...

Finally, I hope that all female friends engaged in cross-border e-commerce can plan every stage of their lives and pursue the life they want with their own hands!